Neurodivergent educator + CRM practitioner

Your nervous system isn't broken.
Your environment is.

Helping neurodivergent adults understand their brains, regulate their nervous systems, stop feeling shame, and learn to trust their mind and body again.


Jen deHaan

Trauma Informed Coaching

Nervous system regulation for neurodivergent brains. Working as partners with what your body and mind is actually doing.

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Wired Divergent

Nervous system regulation for neurodivergent brains. Understanding why your body does what it does, and what you can actually do about it.

Launching April 2026

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Is Polyvagal Theory Debunked? What the 2026 Research Debate Means for Neurodivergent Nervous Systems

May 7, 2026

A 39-author expert evaluation declared polyvagal theory 'untenable.' Almost nobody is talking about what this means for neurodivergent people.

Functional Freeze vs ADHD Paralysis: What Your Nervous System Is Actually Doing

April 24, 2026

Functional freeze and ADHD paralysis look the same from the outside. From the inside, they involve different biology and need different responses. Here's how to tell which one you're in.

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